What Do I Do After My Child Gets A Diagnosis?
by Chelsea McNichols, OTR/L,CIMI
No one knows your child better than you do. What if you suspect something more is going on with your child? The first step is usually to bring your concerns up to your child’s pediatrician, who will likely refer you to a developmental pediatrician for an evaluation. Going through the diagnostic process for your child can be overwhelming and scary. We have put together some strategies for coping following the diagnostic process.
Lastly, a few things to always remember - maybe even write them down and put them on your refrigerator!
Your child is not his/her diagnosis, they are exactly who they are meant to be! Do your best to not compare your child to other siblings or peers, and remember your child is on a different journey to achieving the same goals.
In hard moments, remember that your child is not trying to give you a hard time. Your child is having a hard time. Give yourself permission to walk away when things are challenging and come back ready to help problem solve what is giving your child a hard time.
Your child is still the same person you’ve loved all along, and a diagnosis does not change that.
Your child has access to more resources with a formal diagnosis. Look into what options are available in your area for speech therapy, physical therapy, behavioral therapy, and social interaction groups.